Today's Matter

Being an eldest in the family is one the hardest part in life and a responsibility to some. This is probably one of the reason why every girls and boys matured fast. They have been passed on the responsibility prior to them. They have to act nicely and independently. They must do things accordingly and properly.  I can say all of that because I myself is an eldest in the family, though i came from a broken family, still i am the eldest both sides. Being an eldest is a good thing in some ways. For me, it became my inspiration to be good at my craft. Even though, there are times that i need to give way to my siblings because that's what an eldest do. They needed it the most rather than mine. BEING AN ELDEST MEANS SACRIFICES. There's no room for mistakes nor dissapointments. Everybody's watching you, you have to do good because one single mistakes they will all gonna judge you. They had set super high expectations towards to you than yours to yourself.  Being ...

Happiness. When we heard the word happiness the first thing that comes in our minds is family, your partner, friends and even your dogs. Oh one more thing, FOODS. Am i right? Of course i am right. But what if happiness could also be earned in a more sociable way? Yep it is possible. Just by watching your favorite movies, favorite series or watching your favorite artist. Including playing your favorite music are also the reason of your happiness, it satisfy your guilty pleasure and that makes you happy. Most of us probably don’t believe we need a formal definition of happiness; we know it when we feel it, and we often use the term to describe a range of positive emotions, including joy, pride, contentment, and gratitude. Happiness is a choice. Happiness is the opposite of sadness. Happiness could swept away your problems and stresses, It may be in your school, in your house or it comes from your family. It saddens me that the main reasons of our happiness is the same reason of our...

What is Miscommunication?  A failure to understand or as the word itself to properly communicate each other's perception and ideas. Today, I experienced that kind of conflict such as creating issues that are not necessarily need to consider as much ado about nothing. Big deal rather. For many of us, the biggest barrier to having high-quality conversations is that we’re afraid to share what we’re really thinking and feeling. We chicken out and don’t step up to the plate when the opportunity is on the table to voice our concerns. Being real is scary, but it’s the unreal conversations that should scare us, because they’re incredibly expensive. According to Dale Carnegie author of “How to make friends and Influence people” The purpose of communication is to convey information from one person to another. Through the choice of written and spoken words, ideas, concepts, emotions, thoughts, and opinions are exchanged. Unfortunately, miscommunication is common –...